sad day

I was looking at this earlier, and thinking that I hadn't done a very good job of making entries..... kinda like when I had a diary when I was young.
My best friend called today to tell me she had a miscarriage. She was 11 weeks along, and I was the first one she had told when it was good news..... I have no idea what to do for her- I can't even imagine how she is feeling, so don't even know where to start to try and help her feel better. All my concerns about life seem so insignificant now.